Ghosting Managers: Two Ways to Deal

Ghosting Managers: Two Ways to Deal

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Option one: send a friendly nudge every week. Works sometimes, but most of the time you just get radio silence or a canned reply that makes you wonder if they even read your email. Classic ghost tactic - ignore and hope you go away. Option two: go dark, stop chasing, and pivot to another network. Less stress, more focus on real opportunities. If they're worth your time, they'll come back eventually. If not, congrats - you just saved yourself from wasting another hour chasing a manager who ghosted you faster than a bad lead on a Sunday morning. Math doesn't lie, and most ghosters just aren't worth the effort. Keep moving.
 
If not, congrats - you just saved yourself from wa
Look, you don't need to celebrate too quick just yet. Sometimes ghosting isn't about them not wanting to talk but them being buried under other stuff. Chasing a manager who's ignoring you can be a waste of time, sure, but throwing the whole thing away after one or two flops? That's rushing to the end zone before you even get close. Sometimes a polite follow-up or a different angle is all it takes to break through. It's about persistence not just quitting at the first sign of silence. Saving effort is good but so is making the effort that actually gets results. Don't let your impatience cause you to miss out on a real opportunity just because it's hard
 
Here's the thing, chasing ghosts rarely pays ROI. Sometimes you gotta let them go, focus on the real money. If they come back, they're worth it.
 
Less stress, more focus on real opportunities
Honestly, I think that's a bit oversimplified. Dropping the ghosted network might mean missing out on potential opportunities that could turn around. Sometimes persistence pays, especially if you can re-engage w/o burning bridges. Plus, in this game, the quiet periods are often when the real authority is building up. Cutting and running might be good for your sanity but could also mean losing a shot at a decent gig if you're not careful.
 
nah, I gotta disagree with the whole "go dark and pivot" thing. sure, sometimes u gotta move on, but this game is about persistence. most of these ghosting managers? they're just testing how much u care. u keep chasing, u show u're serious. eventually they'll come back, or at least give u a real answer. if u just ghost them back, u miss the chance to squeeze out a few extra bucks or find the real story behind the silence. also, the idea that they'll come back "if they're worth it", lol, that's copium. most of these guys are just trying to see who's desperate enough to keep poking. u gotta be the one who keeps poking till they're rekt or actually talk. otherwise, u're just handing ur campaigns over to the next guy who's willing to chase ghosts forever. in this biz, the data is screaming at u - be persistent or be broke.
 
The data tells the story, but also depends on the context. Sometimes chasing is just a waste of time and energy, especially if you're getting canned responses. But I get the idea of persistence, it can work if you're subtle and smart about it. Still, in the end, if they ghost twice, they probably won't come back and you gotta prioritize better opportunities. Ghosting is a lowkey red flag that maybe they aren't worth the LTV investment.
 
honestly, I think persistence without a clear strategy is just throwing spaghetti at the wall. Ghosts or not, chasing blindly doesn't build relationships, it burns you out. Sometimes the best move is to recognize when enough is enough and focus on the leads that actually respond. Showing you're willing to walk away can even make them reconsider but that's only if you're doing it with intent, not out of frustration. Anyway, the game's about smart moves not stubbornness. That's a paddlin'
 
trust me on this one, if they ghost and you keep chasing, you just look desperate. better to cut losses and move on, especially if the prospects are slim. in the long run, you're better off focusing on the networks that actually reply.
 
honestly, I think persistence without a clear strategy is just throwing spaghetti at the wall. Ghosts or not, chasing blindly doesn't build relationships, it burns you out.
show me the numbers on ur persistence strategy. If u chase every ghost and get nothing, that's just noise.

trust me on this one, if they ghost and you keep chasing, you just look desperate
IMO, building real relationships requires smart moves, not just hammering away. Chasing blindly is a waste of time unless u can prove it actually moves the needle.
 
lol, you all act like ghosting is just about persistence but the data doesn't care about your feelings. chasing endlessly just burns you out for no ROI most times. best move is to recognize when the effort is wasted and pivot. if they ghost now, they'll ghost forever. saving that energy for networks that reply is just smarter. real relationships come from smart moves, not spammy chasing. if you can't prove your persistence pays off, it's just noise and you're wasting time. keep it simple, move fast, and don't chase ghosts like they're worth your soul.
 
Yeah, chasing ghosts is just a blackhat version of crying over spilt beer. Sometimes you gotta accept they ain't coming back and move on before you get ghosted for real. Math doesn't lie, but it also doesn't care about your feelings.
 
Option one: send a friendly nudge every week
Sending a friendly nudge eveeery week is just a waste of time most of the time. It's like banging your head against the wall hoping the wall will move. The 'algo' giveth and taketh away, and sometimes they just don't want to talk.

Math doesn't lie, but it also doesn't care about your feelings
If they're ghosting, they're ghosting. Chasing them every week just makes you look desperate and burns your time. Better to save that energy for networks that actually respond. Math says move on, not keep poking.
 
i get the frustration but sometimes a friendly nudge isn't just noise. It keeps you top of mind without hammering the door down. Sometimes persistence can turn a ghost into a warm lead, but only if you read the room and know when to back off.
 
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