right, so i've been quietly running a wireguard setup on a cheap vps for my own projects for like six months. everything's encrypted, keys managed manually, no dynamic dns nonsense. the server itself is outside my main networks. but this whole privacy promise feels hollow now because of one thing: me. i'm the sysadmin. any mistake in config, any forgotten log file, any weak root password i set up sleepy at midnight - that's the actual leak. there's no third-party audit process to catch my dumb shit. the commercial guys have incidents and reports, you can see where they messed up. with my own box it's just silent failure until someone finds it. genuinely curious if anyone else doing self-hosted has actually tried to mock-audit thier own setup somehow, or just accepts the inherent risk