so i posted about parasite seo fading fast before, ok. now im kinda confused on outreach stuff, especially for templates. like, everyone says to be super white hat and personal but then u see threads of ppl using way more direct spammy kinda copy and still getting convs (you know, conversions). is the whole white hat template thing just for show or does it actually help get better long-term links? honestly i've tried both and my data's kinda messy, had a niche edit last week with a sorta spammy template. are we overthinking this or am i missing something big?