so i keep seeing debates about openvpn versus wireguard versus whatever protocol and honestly i get a headache trying to figure out what actually matters. like sure, openvpn is old but solid, and wireguard is supposed to be faster and leaner but then i see some tests where openvpn beats it or it just kinda depends. has anyone done a proper speed test focusing only on the protocol layer? curious if the method makes a real difference or if it's just vendor fluff. sometimes i wonder if the protocol is really the bottleneck or if the real lag comes from server location or encryption overhead. anyone got the lowdown on a clean way to test just the protocol impact without other variables messing it up? because honestly it feels like i'm just throwing darts at a board trying to optimize by protocol alone.