honestly so I been messing around with VPNs for a while now and I get that using a VPN on your router covers everything in the house but then you got your apps and your devices and sometimes I wonder if it's better just to run the VPN straight on the device like on your phone or laptop but then does that slow down your internet or make streaming weird I mean some say router VPNs are better for whole home privacy but I've read that they can cause lag and sometimes drop connections and then others say VPN apps give you more control but then again you gotta set it up on each device separately which sounds like a pain in the ass especially if you got a ton of gadgets and then there's the thing about protocols like OpenVPN or WireGuard and whether they run better on router or app I get lost trying to figure out if it's just about speed or privacy or both and then what about streaming Netflix or torrenting like which way is better I wanna know what real folks are doing cause honestly I'm confused if I should switch or just stick with what I got but then again maybe it's time to experiment more but I don't wanna ruin my setup either so yeah, thoughts?