sooo i've been messing around with vpn setups and honestly it's giving me whiplash trying to figure out the best way to secure stuff without slowing everything to a crawl and also not losing privacy like some vpn providers do in the background i tried both routes (pun intended) and apps and honestly the router vpn seems like the cleaner option for device-wide protection but then again it's a pain to set up right and sometimes the speed just tanks or it disconnects randomly on me and i hear that it's more vulnerable because if the router gets compromised the whole network is at risk but with the app i can pick and choose and even turn off some devices if needed but then again i worry about leaks and the actual privacy policies of the providers they say they don't keep logs but then you hear stories of breaches and data selling imho i just want a straightforward setup that actually keeps my info safe but also doesn't kill my speed or create a mess of configurations. anyone here have a clear take or actual experience with a solid setup that didn't turn into a security nightmare?