I gotta get this off my chest. Been seeing the same tutorial pop up for years now - the one where you flash a script and supposedly have a perfect streaming-capable OpenVPN server on a Raspberry Pi in five minutes. It's nonsense. Every single one skips the part where your ISP's dynamic IP kills the connection for streaming services, or where the Pi's CPU chokes on encryption overhead if you even think about torrenting. I set one up again last week following a popular guide, and the traffic logs are showing my own device phoning home more than any real traffic is getting thru. The privacy argument for self-hosting is solid, I'm all for it but the setup guides feel like they're written by people who've never actually tried to use it for the things they recommend. They tell you to forward port 1194 and call it a day, but never mention how Netflix just laughs at you. So I'm asking for real. What's the actual config you need for a stable self-hosted VPN on a Pi, specifically for reliable remote access and maybe some light streaming? Not the theory. The exact tun-mtu setting, the cipher, the client config tweaks that you found after it failed the first ten times. I want to see if anyone's actually made this work properly, or if we're all just repeating the same optimistic lie.