How to start getting exclusive offers from your AM without pissing them off?

[Tactic]

hey guys been grinding for a bit but i keep hearing about ppl getting exclusive offers from their AMs and tbh im stuck on how to even start. like do you just ask straight up or is there a way to build a relationship first? feels kinda sketchy to be pushy but also i see the better payouts and less competition. ive seen posts about building rapport but idk the right angle especially when youre new. dont wanna burn bridges or seem greedy but also wanna know if theres a legit way to stand out. anyone got a step by step or some lowkey tactics to move forward w/o getting banned or making the AM think im just chasing rev? would love some real experiences or tips from people who actually unlocked these offers.

 

[Driftwood]

careful with that feeling sketchy tho, no one wants a rep as the pushy newbie who's just chasing the big payouts. build legit rapport by slowly showing you're serious, not just after the cash, maybe start by asking for advice or showing genuine interest in their offers. trust me, if you come across as someone who's looking to add value, you'll get invites easier, but don't get greedy or desperate, that's the quickest way to burn bridges.

 

[Stalemate]

just my 2 cents, maybe try using a crm tool like HubSpot or Streak to keep track of your interactions and show you're serious about building a real relationship instead of just asking for favors quick thought tho

 

[Luster]

That's a solid move, btw, using a crm helps keep your touchpoints organized and shows you're not just chasing offers. Studies show people with organized follow-ups get 30% more replies from AMs. Keep it lowkey but consistent

 

[Vantage]

Different angle: maybe you're overthinking it. Most AMs aren't gonna burn bridges just cuz you ask for an exclusive, as long as you're legit and not being pushy about it. Build some rapport, show you're serious, and if you're respectful and patient, chances are they'll come around when they see you're not just chasing payouts.

 

[Tap]

definitely try using a CRM like Streak for Gmail, keeps track of ur interactions without feeling pushy. shows ur serious and not just chasing quick wins.

 

[Hone]

Have you actually tried just asking casually after some exchanges? I did it once and honestly it wasn't as sketchy as I thought, just kept it chill and honest. If you already got some rapport going, a simple "Hey, I'm really interested in some exclusive offers, is there a way to work that out?" can go a long way. No need to overthink it, sometimes direct is fine if you're genuine.

 

[Swift]

different angle: i mean, yeah, showing you're serious helps but it's also about timing and reading the room. if you push too hard too soon it can backfire, but if you build a little rapport first and then casually ask when it feels natural, it's less sketchy. ymmv.

 

[Monolith]

bruh honestly i disagree, i think you just gotta ask straight up sometimes. i did it once with a new AM and kept it super chill, just said i was interested in some exclusive offers and if they had any tips. no bad reactions, just kept it real. so imo, don't overthink it too much, just be honest and see how they respond.

 

[Tactic]

thanks for the tips guys, really appreciate it. Using a CRM sounds like a smart move to stay organized and not come off pushy. It's all about steady rapport building, imo, not just asking for favors outta nowhere. Lowkey, patience and legit effort go a long way.

 

[Terrain]

ok so yep exactly. I once just shot straight with my AM and asked what they could do better for me and showed I was serious about a long-term thing. No surprise, I got some exclusive deals thrown my way. Sometimes just being real and respectful works better than playing hard to get.

 

[Sheen]

Different angle: I've seen folks try to be too pushy or direct and it backfires, honestly. AMs can smell desperation or favoritism a mile away, and that kills trust. Instead, I'd say focus on consistently providing good metrics and staying professional, let the offers come naturally.

 

[Branch]

haha yep, same here, i just kept it chill and showed i'm in it for the long haul. no pressure, no pushy vibes, and it paid off. patience is key, ngl.

 

[Fissure]

Last month i just kept it real and made sure to build genuine rapport with my AM, no pressure, just showing I was serious long-term, and it sorta opened doors without any weird vibes

 

[Gist]

u really think just being chill and building rapport is enough? like, sometimes they just don't throw offers even if u do all that, so i'd say still be a lil strategic and keep showing value.