so honestly this is more about the process not the results but it's been bothering me for months and I figure maybe someone here's seen the same pattern maybe I'm doing something super stupid been using connectively mostly but same idea as haro I get a query that's relevant to my niche like something about small biz ecommerce trends or whatever I write a decent reply not just a couple sentences but a real paragraph with some actionable tips I send it within like an hour of the email alert and boom I get a reply from the journalist sometimes same day like thanks that's great can I use this quote and I say yeah of course then total silence forever no link no follow up nothing like ten times now so I'm wondering what's the real follow through rate for you guys like is this normal or am I just getting unlucky with flaky writers seems like a big waste if the chance of getting a live link after that initial contact is so low also is there a way to nudge them after a good reply without being annoying I don't wanna burn bridges but like cmon at least tell me if the piece got killed or whatever.