so i set up my own wireguard vpn on a digital ocean droplet like everyone said was smarter, more control lmao. followed the perfect github tutorial, had it running sweet for six months. then woke up this morning to my server sending out spam emails. wtf. i mean i have ssh keys only, no root password, ufw locked down. i don't even know where they got in but there's a script in /tmp now and my logs are scrambled. all that privacy talk about self-hosted being safer is feeling real shaky right now. i need someone who actually monitors their vps to tell me what logs i should be checking hourly because apparently weekly glances ain't cutting it. or maybe i should just go back to paying mullvad and stop pretending i'm a sysadmin