okay, so I've been reading around and honestly I'm more confused than when I started. Resource page link building sounds straightforward right? You find a relevant resource page, pitch your content or site, get a backlink. But man, it feels like there's a thousand ways to do it and no clear answer on what actually works. I mean, some say hit up university pages, others say niche directories, and then you got the black hat guys talking about spammy resource pages. I'm trying to stay white hat but even then, it's a jungle. I've tried scraping lists of resource pages but it's hit or miss. Sometimes I email a bunch, get ignored or worse, no response at all. Other times I get some reply but no link. And then there's the question of quality, do I go after high DA pages or just focus on relevance? And how do you even find those pages? Do you look for footer links, sidebar links, or just get lucky with some niche blog mentioning a resource? Honestly, I feel like I'm just guessing and wasting time. Does anyone have a legit process or any success stories that don't involve shady tactics? Would love to hear some real insight because right now I feel like I'm throwing spaghetti at the wall.